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Tech Kariyerim
The Method
05Networking

Before the ad is ever posted, a question goes around inside the company — “do you know anyone like this?” To be that answer, you have to be known.

This chapter is about who to talk to and in what order, how to write the first message, and what to do when nobody replies.

Why networking

What a referral is actually worth

These figures come from the live session — they describe what the founder sees in senior hiring, not an independent study. The direction is the point.

Share of senior positions filled through a referral
60%Share of senior positions filled through a referral
A referred candidate's odds of clearing the first stage
A referred candidate's odds of clearing the first stage
Average time to first reply on a referred application
2hAverage time to first reply on a referred application
70% · The hidden job market — roles that get filled through the network before they ever become a public ad.

All four figures are from the Tech Kariyerim live session; the deck cites no external source for them.

60–70% of senior hires happen through a referral.
Hilal Duraker, Tech Kariyerim live session
Who to talk to

Three rings — from the outside in.

Each ring is a different person with a different job, so each one is a different conversation. Work them in order.

01

Human Resources

First contact and the screen happen here. Come in having taken the job ad apart: prepare answers backed by numbers to the three questions you will almost certainly be asked, and write down your own questions before the call.

02

The hiring manager

The person who actually owns the role. Build your “tell me about yourself” as past, present, future — your story, not your job title. Pull that company's interview questions off Glassdoor, work the behavioural ones through STARL, and arrive with two questions: “What does success look like in 6–12 months?” and “What is the biggest challenge the team is facing right now?”

03

The team (peers)

The people you would actually sit next to. If you are already connected, just message them. If you are not, find the common ground — same university, same department, same former employer, same country. The goal is a long-term relationship, not one application: set up a 15-minute call or a coffee.

Ring 1 · prep

Walk into the HR call with three answers and three questions.

Take the job ad apart and prepare a worked example, with a number in it, for every line of it.

The three questions you will most likely be asked

  1. 01Tell me about yourself.
  2. 02Why do you want to work here?
  3. 03What is your expectation / salary?

Three questions to ask (prepare five)

  1. 01What do the next steps in the process look like?Process
  2. 02What is the team looking for in an ideal candidate?Team
  3. 03What would you advise me for the next stage?Role

Take the ad apart — mark yourself against every line

Green

I have this

You meet the line. Back it with a worked example that has a number in it.

Yellow

Partly

You meet it in part. Tell the closest experience you have — again, with a number.

Red

I don't have this

You don't meet it. Don't hide it in the call — say how you plan to close it.

First-message template

Short, specific, no pressure.

Three sentences: show you know them, sum yourself up, make one clear ask.

linkedin-dm.txt
LinkedIn DM · under 500 characters

Hi [Name], I follow [Company]'s [product X / your article] — [a concrete detail] in particular caught my eye.

I'm on the fintech backend side myself, the last 4 years in payment systems. The Senior BE role your team opened is a close fit for my profile.

Would you have time for a 15-minute chat? Even if nothing comes of the role, I'll ask my questions and get out of your way. — Ayşe

Why it works

  • In the first sentence, show that you know them.
  • In the second, sum up who you are in ten seconds.
  • In the third, a clear ask — a 15-minute conversation.
  • “Even if nothing comes of it” lowers the pressure and raises the reply rate.
  • Delete every sentence that reads like a template.
Follow-up strategy

If no answer comes — don't give up, change something.

Silence is rarely a no. Most of the time it is a timing problem, so change the timing or change the channel.

  1. Day 0

    First message

    Personalise the template and send it.

  2. +7 days

    A polite nudge

    Two sentences. “I know you're busy — just floating this back up.”

  3. +14 days

    A different channel

    Find their email address, send the same content as an email.

  4. +30 days

    Archive it

    Write again in two months with a new reason.

A winning application strategy

Not 100 applications — 20 focused ones.

Twenty target companies, split into three tiers, each tier getting a different amount of your effort.

A

A-list: 5 companies

Your dream companies. A tailored CV, a cover letter and a referral for every single one.

B

B-list: 10 companies

A suitable position. Core CV plus a short cover letter.

C

C-list: 5 companies

Market warm-up and negotiation leverage. Standard CV.

Effort split60% of your total effort goes to the A-list, 30% to B, 10% to C.

One right application to an A-company is worth more than twenty C-applications.

List sizes and the effort split are the method taught in the Tech Kariyerim live session, not an external benchmark.

Application tracking

Every application is one row. Every row is one next action.

Five columns and one rule: no row is finished until it carries its next step.

Example application tracker with five rows
CompanyRoleStatusDateNext step
Company XSenior BEInterview · stage 314 AprSystem design · 22 Apr
Company YStaff BEOffer expected12 AprOffer call · 19 Apr
Company ZTech LeadCV sent10 AprReminder · 17 Apr
Company WSenior BEAwaiting referral08 AprMessage Mert · 15 Apr
Company VPrincipalRejected05 Apr

Illustrative rows from the Tech Kariyerim live session, slide 52.

RuleNotion, Google Sheet, Airtable — it makes no difference. Open it every Sunday, look at every row, update the next step.

You cannot track this in your head. An application that isn't on the list doesn't exist.

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